How did I miss this?

Christy asked Ani last night what abilities she would like to regain. How did I miss asking her this?? Ani wants to be able to talk again. Ani wants to be able to eat by mouth again. Ani wants to be able to see better again. Ani wants to be able to move her head as she wishes again. Ani "didn't care" about using her hands again. Ani "didn't care" about dancing again. It kinda kills me that she "doesn't care" about using her hands or dancing again. Is she resigned to her fate? Should I feel comforted that a nearly 9 year old can make this decision? I wonder...the things that she indicated that she wants back are literally in the same order of importance that Christy and I have discussed. Has she just listened to us and decided that all she wants are the most important things to us? I'm going to have to really think about this and then talk with Ani.